All posts by Craig Muir

Honest Church

The Student Christian Movement’s Honest Church campaign asks churches to write with “greater honesty about the true welcome that LGBTQ+ people receive in a church.” And this is an attempt to do so by saying something about who we are and trying to answer the questions that they ask.

Honest Church suggest that there is a spectrum of welcome. We would suggest that we are at 4 on that spectrum. We have publicly affirmed our support of LGBTQ+ people, in particular by registering as a church where we can conduct Same-Sex Marriage. We have had LGBTQ+ people in the congregation, although at the moment none in active leadership (some have been in the past). We have parents and grandparents of LGBTQ+ people in the congregation and they wish to ensure anyone attending would get the same support they would want for their own children elsewhere. We do also have some people who are not sure about the steps we have taken – our resolution to register for same-sex marriage did not pass unanimously. The Minister has preached in favour of LGBTQ+ relationships and we have talked openly and honestly about our responses in Church Meeting.

We are open to hearing your questions and any suggestions for the way we can be more supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. We would be willing to have our rooms used as a support space and to be far more active in creating a safe space for people to be open about their sexuality.

Eco-Church Silver Award

At our Harvest Festival we were able to announce that we had met the criteria to be a Silver Eco-Church. We are pleased to display the badge. However, the commitment to be good stewards does not rest, and we will continue to maintain good habits and learn more. 

Then God said, “I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food. … God saw all that had been made, and it was very good.”

A General Election Prayer

I’m writing this the morning after the Election Hustings. You should read it before the General Election, although those with postal votes may have already voted. 

I did enjoy the hustings. I wasn’t sure if I would, it’s always difficult when you organise something to know how it will all come together, especially when it’s organised by e-mails and the various ways that people respond (or don’t respond) to e-mail. We didn’t know if anyone would come, or if the format – which we knew was unfamiliar, would work. In the end  we had around 100 people engaged in thinking about the political future of the town and country, we had a format that gave the candidates an opportunity to engage in conversations with people, as well as make their points from the platform. We covered a whole range of issues that I felt gave us a chance to hear candidates views on local, national and ethical issues and see the way they handled each.

I find choosing who to vote for tricky because I want to vote for a person who will be a good constituency MP, as well as think about which party I would prefer to form the government. I look at the official party manifesto, trying to get a sense for which one is closest to my own thinking, but sometimes find myself drawn in to a vote against a party or trying to work out which are least bad options. Sometimes I have voted for policies I want, even though I know they have no chance of winning and in one local election I voted for policies I didn’t particularly agree with because I liked the candidate and wanted to encourage their approach towards local people.  Hence why I’ve always found hustings useful to see how each candidate responds to that complicated mix of factors. Last night I was pleased to see that the candidates engaged well with people and in particular that those most likely to become Loughborough’s MP will (I think) be  a good constituency MP whatever their party policies. 

Finally, I will pray. For our faith and our politics can not be neutral. They inform one another and they should always be in a deep informative conversation. 

A General Election Prayer

May love surround our discussions;

May love inform our policies;

May love organise our debate.

May prayer uphold our campaigning;

May prayer enlighten our opinion;

May prayer determine our mark.

May our votes be cast for kindness;

May our votes be cast for truthfulness;

May our votes be cast in love.

Be blessed

Craig

Garden in Bloom

 Once again we are involved in Loughborough in Bloom, taking a pride in looking after our premises and uplifting those who use the building or live nearby. It is a labour of love and we often find people sitting quietly on the bench enjoying the scene. Each garden will be viewed by the organising committee. Our date is Monday 5th August when we hope to give a good account of ourselves. If you feel you could become involved please see Hilary or Phyllis. Many hands make a light work (or garden blossom). Many thanks to Hilary, Alan, Phyllis and Christine. Your work is so appreciated.

Being Intergenerational

I spent six years of my childhood in a village called Cheadle Hulme. I say village, but at the time we lived there it was growing into the suburb of Stockport/Manchester that it is today. I was recently reminded of those days when I spotted a group called “Growing Up in Cheadle Hulme” and people sharing memories of their childhoods. I found one person who is now a member at Melton, another  who lived in the same house as us before we did and pictures from my school – newly built in 1966, when I went in the first intake. At that time the whole area was a building site, and a few of us were remembering playing in the partly built houses, turning piles of sand into Long Jump pits, and being free to roam. 

Of course, the temptation is for those of an earlier era to look back with rose-tinted glasses at the freedoms we had and despair at the way children are raised today. But we have been part of that changing society – we know from experience that a building site is not a safe place for 8 year olds, and we have filled those almost empty roads with cars, and we know that even back then there were nasty people around taking advantage of children given freedom to roam or entrusted into the care of youth organisations. So, now, Safeguarding needs to be on every agenda.

What has not changed, is the idea that it takes a village to raise a child, even if the methods used are slightly different. If we want children of today to have good memories to look back on and to build their adult lives upon, we each need to take responsibility for the world they are growing up in and be part of making good memories. I’m sure one of the things that has held me in church is that I have good childhood memories of the various places we worshipped,  communities where I was  included, encouraged, given freedom to grow and develop as a follower of Jesus. I give thanks for the people who created that culture – even if nowadays, I can’t remember their names!

We are not a church that has any regular children worshipping with us but we are a church that has lots of children coming into our building (Brownies, Guides, WWW, Grub Club, Dance, Theatre, Judo, Kumon) they are each an integral part of the life of this village. I would love to find more ways to connect those who are here on a Sunday with those here through the rest of the week. And to feel comfortable saying to those families, “Sunday is also for you.”  Or creating new worship times that would encourage new connections. But I know that for that to be so, we need to make some changes so that such an intention might become possible. A book I’m reading at the moment says, “We believe that God is calling us to be an intergenerational church; a church that intentionally brings the generations together in mutual serving, sharing or learning within … core activities … in order to live out being the Body of Christ.”

How might we be being called to grow this church across the generations and what are each of us who belong to this church today, prepared to contribute to seeing that come to fruition?

Be blessed, Craig

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Safeguarding: and whilst talking about Safeguarding – for young, old, client or worker, a reminder that our Safeguarding Co-ordinator is Una Hubbard, the Deputy is Daphne Beale and on safeguarding matters they should be contacted on safeguarding@loughboroughurc.co.uk

June Calendar

Sunday 2nd10:30amSunday worship led by Richard Eastman
Tuesday 4th2:00pmTuesdays@2.
Thursday 6th2:00pmElders’ Meeting

4:00pmPrayers@4
Friday 7th10:30amBible Study; Joshua 4 in Blue Room or via Zoom  Meeting ID: 893 0123 3247  Passcode: 772397 
Sunday 9th10:30am Communion Service  led by Craig Muir
Wednesday 12th10:30am Nature & Nurture join us for a walk at Outwoods.
Sunday 16th10:30am Worship led by Daphne Beale
Tuesday 18th10:00am Tuesday Bible Study: Esther, via Zoom, contact Geetha for link

2:00pmTuesdays@2. A social time in the Vestibule in which we share cakes and chat.

4:00pmPrayers@4
Friday 21st10:30amBible Study; Joshua 5 Blue room or Zoom as above
Sunday 23rd10:30amWorship led by Mike Playdon
Thursday 27th4:00pmGrub Club Volunteers Briefing

7:00pmChurch Meeting
Sunday 30th10:30amWorship led by Craig Muir

12:15Picnic with LBC and Trinity in Queens Park
July Calendar

Tuesday 2nd2:00pmTuesdays@2.

2:30pmChoir Practice (please check nearer time)

4:00pmPrayers@4
Sunday 7th10:30amSunday worship led by Mike Playdon
Tuesday 9th2:30pmChoir Practice (please check nearer time)
Thursday 11th2:00pmElders’ Meeting
Friday 12th – 15th
URC General Assembly
Sunday 14th 10:30amCommunion Service led by Daphne Beale
Saturday 27th2:00-4:00pmManse Open House

Ghost Roads

There is a group I sometimes stumble over on Facebook that shares pictures of “Ghost Roads.” These are roads that have been cut off or become dead ends because of later developments and the changing shape of the infrastructure. You will sometimes see them as lay-bys or as quiet picnic areas under a motorway – their former purpose difficult to identify as the modern world rushes by. I’ve always enjoyed trying to spot such places or trying to follow their route and to trace the buildings and imagine the communities that they served. Sometimes these are roads that have been used for 2000 years, routes for ancient armies, or herding animals, or carrying goods to market, or linking coaching inns or building new industry – and if you look carefully you can sense the ghosts of those old travellers.

At such times, it is easy to resent the changes that have led to such abandonment. To despair at a closed pub or factory, wonder at the ruined houses and imagine that life was so much better then. But such places have been by-passed for a reason. Perhaps the markets have changed, or the industry has moved on, or we wanted to get somewhere quicker than we could before  or the traffic was swamping a village or a city and it just didn’t make sense to follow the old path or persist with the traditional ways. And so we rush past and marvel at how quickly we can arrive these days, often happy to do so. Yet there is also a goodness in taking our time, following the old ways, being surprised by a small vibrant community making good use of the lay-by, or parts of an old industrial complex or the corner of a busy chapel. 

The way to Easter is well marked out with familiar stories of the teaching, conversations and plots; sometimes we may be rushing onwards, failing to take in the detail of a story,  or assuming we know this one already, so there is nothing new to contemplate. Yet, if we take time there is often something new to discover or time to remember those who have travelled this way once upon a time, and it serves us well to pause and listen to what they have to tell us. Beyond Easter Day we begin to hear the stories of the early church spreading the gospel across the whole region. They use the communications systems of the day – roads, shipping, letters – to share good news into growing population centres and create new communities following The Way.

Today, we are faced with a situation where it seems like the church is positioned on one of these ghost roads. Our buildings are sometimes positioned where the people used to be or where the road system now passes them by. We look like remnants of an old way of living, and we are often faced with the challenge of whether to stay or whether to go somewhere else. My Synod role is designed to help those churches who are prepared to ask those questions to do so – the joy is in finding answers that no one expected, the sadness is finding people who are so stuck in their ways that they won’t look at the possibility of following Jesus in new ways.

I love the vibrancy of our building through the week, with so many people in and around making use of our presence to learn, feed, heal and manage their way through life. It creates pressures, and sometimes I wish the buildings were configured in another way – but we work with what we have. That vibrancy only happens because there is a worshipping community at the heart of it. Without the presence of a Sunday congregation or Tuesday’s prayers, I do not believe everything else happens in the same way. Hence we need to sustain one another and we need to encourage some to return and others to join us – I know that is difficult but all churches exist because they pray and meet together, and they invite others to join in and the responsibility to do so is everyone’s.

“They devoted themselves to the apostles teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles. All believers held everything in common, selling their possessions and goods, they gave to everyone in need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favour of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were saved.” Acts 2:42-47.

May you know the blessings of Easter and the joy of following the way of Jesus

Be blessed, 

Craig

Looking forward to Lent

I do find the beginning of the year a strange time. On the one hand we have put last year behind us, and we can give the impression that after the rush of Christmas we can just get back into the normal routine and relax a bit – I wish someone would tell my diary that! I find I’m still catching up with some things that were left undone in December whilst trying to plan for Lent and Easter, which are upon us in no time at all. 

And perhaps that is why I find that Mark’s Gospel resonates so much. It is just so busy and even when Jesus finds a quiet place away from the crowds he is quickly disturbed once again (e.g Mark 1:37)  It just feels so familiar. One of the books waiting unread on my desk is called “Being Interrupted”. It reflects on ministry in a small, busy Anglican/United Reformed church in Birmingham and the sense that nothing quite ends as planned because life gets in the way. Looking at it again, I note it uses Mark’s Gospel to help those reflections – I think I need to create some time in Lent to do more than just glance at it.

Then, Mike Pence at LBC pointed out the Bible Reading Fellowship resource Loving our Neighbour: A Lenten Journey a collection of daily readings, from Ash Wednesday to Easter Sunday, intended to help us consider how we can really love each other, as individuals and communities. For each day, there is a short passage of scripture, a couple of pages of commentary and a prayer. Each week, a different author considers the theme of loving our neighbour from a different angle, as follows:

  • Loving in truth
  • Loving those who are vulnerable
  • Loving those who are suffering
  • Loving oneself
  • Loving those who are different
  • Loving the world around us
  • Loving to the end

Several authors are familiar names to Mike and myself, including writers who have inspired us in the past.  So I have ordered it for myself from https://www.brfonline.org.uk/collections/lent/products/loving-my-neighbour. Mike suggests that if you do decide to journey with this book, and would like a chance to chat with others about its insights, then please do let us know. We would be glad to meet up with a group for an informal discussion – with refreshments, naturally!

Otherwise, 

  • What do you need to do to make time in Lent that gets you away from the hubbub of the normal routine? 
  • Can you take time to be quiet and be aware of God communicating with you at this period of life? 
  • Are there changes that you need to make so as to be ready to live as God is calling you to live?
  • How can you use Lent to be ready for the season of Resurrection that we will mark at Easter?

However, you spend the next month, may Lent bring space to catch your breath and may Easter fill you with the hope of new life.

Be blessed, Craig